There are many ways that you can make a guy like you. Sometimes the most obvious ways are not as effective as doing the opposite of what you would think that you should do. If you throw yourself at him then he may see you as easy and desperate and he will never like you in the way that you want if he thinks you are desperate. So, what can you do to make a guy like you? One of the things may be to ignore him.
Ignore Him
You can make the guy of your dreams like you by simply ignoring him. You do need to get his attention before doing this, so you can talk to his friends about things that he is interested in where he can hear you and then simply ignore him. When he tries to engage you act disinterested and this will get his attention. Talk to his friends and mingle, but do not pay him any undue attention. This will make him come to you and pursue you. If you are hard to get he will view you as someone that is worth fighting for and it will only increase his interest in you and all that you are.
Once he is paying attention to you it is important that you still appear a little aloof. If he starts to think that you are overly interested his interest might wane pretty easily. When you have gotten his attention and he asks for your number do not answer the first time he calls. Let him think about it and work for your attention. This will drive him crazy and make him want you even more. When you answer and he asks you out do not agree right away. Tell him that you will think about it and let him ask again before you agree.
Dating
When you go out do not seem overly anxious and you can even be a little late. Let him wait for you and make it worth the wait. When you show up you need to look worth waiting for but appear as if you do not care that you have left him waiting. After all, you are worth the wait and you need to project this to him. Be strong and confident and never let him see how much you like him. On the date you can have fun and be yourself, but do not throw yourself at him and be sure that he knows that you expect him to have respect for you.
This will only make him want you more and ask you out for another date, which is the ultimate goal. He must never know that you have liked him the entire time and that you set out to make him like you. You can have a variety of dates that center around the likes that you both have, and you need to make sure that he understands that the things that you like to do are just as important as the things that he likes to do.
If you want to make the guy of your dreams like you, the first thing that you have to do is learn to like yourself and then project that to him. If you have self confidence and poise this will make you more attractive to him and he will like you. Liking yourself and believing that you are a person worth the effort will make him put forth more effort, and he will like you more in the long run. Getting him to like you may be easy, but it is also important to hold his interest. Your love for yourself will keep him liking you for a long time and maybe even forever.
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